Articles · July 23, 2026
8 Tips for Photo Sessions with a Baby or Toddler
Worried about meltdowns with your 2 year old? Don't be! These are my tips to prepare for your session with a baby or toddler
8 Tips for Photo Sessions with a Baby or Toddler
Family photo session with children under 3 or 4 can be challenging, because you just never know if they’ll want to sit still or what kind of mood they’ll be in. Over the years I’ve learned a few things about these sessions and here are 7 Tips for Photo Sessions with a Baby or Toddler:
- Plan the session for a time of day when the baby is usually happy, and avoid scheduling during nap times or cranky times. And believe me, there’s a reason why this is rule #1!
- As much as the adults want to be in charge, in this case, the baby is my boss. It never works to fight what a toddler wants to do during a session, so I find myself usually just following them around and doing what works. When the baby wants to move, we move. When she’s happy, we stay there. I’m not too proud to take orders from a baby, LOL.
- Comfort is critical. If a baby’s shoes are uncomfortable or their outfit is itchy or they hate a headband, change it. No amount of cute fashion will get you a good pic of a cranky or crying baby. Cute is great, but happy is better! I recommend trying on the outfit ahead of time so you can change it up if something doesn't work.
- Keep their favorite toys around to play with. If a toddler has a favorite toy that they refuse to put down, let’s keep it in the picture! It may not be what you originally planned for, but a happy baby holding a teddy bear is still going to be a cute photo. Plus, I love it when you can look back on these photos and remember that phase when the baby would simply not be separated from his toy truck.
- If we’re doing the session somewhere other than your home, keep Kleenex and wipes ready, as well as snacks and something to drink. Even in a 30 minute session, they will want something.
- Bribes are ok. If your kid is motivated by the occasional gummy bear or goldfish cracker, keep them handy to reward them when they’re being good. But try not to talk about the rewards before the session (like, "if you're good during the session you get a treat"). It's much better to play up the session like it is it's own reward. "We are going to have so much fun!"
- Have a playlist ready. Often children can be calmed by their favorite songs. It's a good idea to have a small playlist ready so we can be singing along to The Wheels on the Bus or Baby Shark to get a smile.
- Most critical is this: Stay calm and happy during the session. Everyone seems to think their toddler is the only one that has a minor (or major) meltdown during a session, but believe me, you’re not alone! What makes the biggest difference is the parents staying calm and happy and redirecting their attention to happy and fun things.